When she hits you or pushes you … (hold her hands)
When she gets angry ( just hug her )
When she be silent (ask her what is the problem)
When she Ignore you (Give her attention)
When she asked you about something (don’t neglect her)
When she wants to get away from you ( do not agree with her opinion)
When you see her in the worst situations (Tell her you are beautiful)
when you see her Cry( kiss her head and tell her I love you a lot)
When you feel her scared (protect her )
When you see her jealous (that’s mean she loves you more than you imagine )
When she says to you I love you that’s mean she has feelings for you more than you think)
When she looks into your eyes don’t turn your eyes until she turned it first.
"They (your wives) are your garment and you are a garment for them" (Noble Quran 2:187)
This verse of the Quran reveals the basic purpose and concept of marriage in Islam. Islam enjoins that a wife and husband should have the most intimate and loving relationship. Each should cover, protect, and safeguard the interests of… another partner. This profound and revolutionary verse has the following 5 practical implications:
1- The fact that man and woman are considered garments to each other suggests that both have an equal status in sharing the responsibilities of marriage.
2- As the garment covers the body in such a way that there is nothing between the garment and the body, the husband and wife should be so close and intimate to each other that there should be no secrets between them. Both confide fully in each other and share their joys and sorrows without any hesitation.
3- The task of the garment is to protect the body from outside dangers. The husband and wife accordingly protect each other from all external dangers and work together to build a home and a tranquil refuge from the harshness of daily life.
4- A garment not only covers the body but also gives it beauty and grace. Similarly, husband and wife should not only cover and shield each other from external worries, temptations, abuses….etc., but should do so with grace and dignity.
5- No one likes to live without clothes, hence men and women should aspire to get married and serve as garments to each other.